Hi guys!!!!!!!!!
OMG!!! I am like sooooo INSPIRED today!!!!! So I was on Facebook, like I am most mornings around 9 am and I saw a post from Millionaire Divas Club (go subscribe the page is great) that read, "BE A GOAL DIGGER". I was like, WOW! How positive is that!?!!!!????!!!! And guys, to be perfectly honest it hit home for me for a couple of reasons.
I won't go into all of them but I will touch on one specific thing that really BURNS ME UP and that is how women are portrayed in the music industry. Most of us as are portrayed as sex symbols, video vixens, eye candy, hoes, jumps offs, etc. Basically, SEX ON A STICK! Which really, really bothers me. Mostly because alot of us don't have to succumb to that at all! There are so many talented, smart, and beautifully educated women in this industry but for some reason they choose to be behind the man, instead of in front or at least beside him, and choose to be labeled as a sex symbol, versus the powerful and talented woman that they are. WHY? Because most do not have the courage, or enough self esteem or self respect to DEMAND to be equal in this business. Instead of being a lioness they choose to settle for being a "kitty", literally.
So with that being said and without me getting on a soap box I will end it with this. Ladies all the power you need to be successful in this business lies WITHIN YOU, not BESIDE YOU. Having a man to fulfill you emotionally is fine, but financially YOU DON'T NEED HIM. I charge you to become self sufficient. Sit down and figure out what it is that makes you "tick", and then capitalize on that. Set yourself some short and long terms goals and become RELENTLESS in achieving them. Then, build a support group. Surround yourself with positive people who can feed you positive energy. Stay away from "negative cake". It makes you fat and miserable. As a matter of fact go on Facebook and start with the Millionaire Divas Club. Go on the page and start reading. It has tons of positive imagery and posts on there. Be mindful of what you take in. If it's not positive don't digest it, period. Life is not a dress rehearsal, you only get to live it once. Give it every thing you've got, and some times even what you don't. Become a GOAL DIGGER. At least at the end of the day you'll be the person responsible for what you dig up. Good or bad.
Love you guys!!!!!!!!! Until Next time. ♥
Vivian Cash, NC's Radio Vixen
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